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Dexter* the Emperor Musabo of Qua'anpan(pronounced Kwanpan); where he is doing his Service is 5feet sumtin tall and I met him on my way back to Lagos from Akure. His most prominent feature is perhaps his afro and then of course his brash personality.He is fun to be around and has a bottomless well of humor. Another feature I can't seem to get past is his Lower lip(Think Angelina jolie's but a bit plumper):not that have sampled it ohhhhhh..Anyways, we spent two days or so together at my cousin's home..He is my cousin's friend...Been with Dexter is just like been in "a nite of thousand laughs": Fun all the way..the first day, it was as if I had met him since 24yrs ago.We talked and talked and talked and it was awesome..That night when I went to bed(Yes i did & alone),I began to feel the first stirrings of attraction.It has really been a long while since I particularly felt close or chatty with anyone.The guys have being meeting are either boring, irritating or compulsively attentive. Dexter is none of the above. When he first entered the car, he had a bottle of Eva filled with an odd concotion and he claimed it was sepe, opa eyin and all those other things;I later discovered that it was Two bottles of Malta Guiness and a bottle of coke and fanta. In my mind, I thought what a nincompoop..Now that nincompoop, is a friend who is sensitive, touchy and heartwarmingly charming..I knew he was supposed to leave after a night but he stayed for another day..today he has had his bath and was on his way out of the door, when I told him I was going to miss him and if he stayed another day I will dedicate a page to him on my blog..well he is behind me now trying to read my blog now. Anyway, you never know where you can make a good friend so always give everyone a chance to be themselves or express themselves..I have been extremely nasty and rude in the past but I have come to realise that for me to have friends who still care about me despite all my shortcomings;I also deserve to give people a chance to be themselves and you never know what personality you might like..forget all those sanguine personlity and things.
Dexter*-not real name.
Am not a particularly romantic person, so am always impressed with myself when I manage to do something that actually passes for romantic or sexy. My friends can vouch for that. I am a grouch when it comes to love n stuff and am not particular comfortable with romantic gestures or emotional thingys..I prefer straightforward, lets get down to business and what exactly are we doing kind of approach to relationship. My only actual problem is that I succumb easily to good music, I don't mean the hip hop, rap or reggae genre..i mean slow-love songs. Whenever I hear one, I always feel like "having someone" and I am saying that in the most christian sense. Back to my point, truly opposites attract abi what did I do to attract the exact type of men, I will rather avoid? The weepy, clingy and possesive type. Personally, I don't mind if my man does not call me more than once a day-if he is away or we are not together..and a 2-3min call should do, but I had to get the one who can talk for over 2 hours..without even taking a sip of water. Opinionated people generally have a lot to say..A hug or two is ok (if we haven't seen in days) but when it becomes protracted especially in a public place, I take it that it means am really looking good and people are eyeing me and wondering what am doing with you..but clinging shows you probably have low confidence and you are thinking she just might leave if you don't latch on.. A dear N unsuccessful toaster once asked me if I could kiss my boyfriend in public..I said yes..infact I have been known to give a peck or two but only if it came with the flow or if I was in the mood..but if it not...nope..some guys ask for a kiss in public..kilode..did they just notice you had lips or your lip gloss may be strawberry flavoured..I know some ladies may not agree with me on this point but personally I dislike public show of affection..i don't do it and i don't like to see it..it makes think the girl is feeling insecure or handing out hands-off warnings to other ladies around..it can be an ugly thing.. And the weepy oh the weepy..who brought that calamity upon me?..me, myself and I..my snappy, unloving, uncaring, unromantic self..everything makes him cry..Maybe its a medical defect..maybe i should refer his case to GREY'S ANATOMY. I don't want to dwell on this cos it makes me "eew".. On a cheerful note, I came across this joke and thought to share oh..i stored it somewhere but I can't seem to find it..O dabo..N:B- please note that all these are my own personal opinions and preferences..if u no c am dat wa, na ur own b dat..
ITS MY BIRTHDAY..sorry i have not written for sometime...am just to lazy and most of the time i have been mobile..but i promiswe to post all my backlog of notes...Wish me Good Dancing as I proceed to Step in the name of Love....Am out to the Island oh.."let's go thereeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee"
